Thank you so much for your reply, I feel that the man you have been able to focus on is my soon to be x husband as you are describing him perfectly. I could describe many many more things about him as well but that would be a waste of energy. Can you see me finding someone else and will it be someone from my current circle of friends or will it be someone new also do you see me having a family with this person? Can you give me an initial and a time scale, I have been on my own for a lot of my past so it would not be the worst thing i can think of its just i would like someone nice to share my life with.
many many thanks